Imagine a world that didn’t include the musical mastery of Mozart, the passion and perseverance of Helen Keller, or the charm and charisma of Denzel. Such may be the case if these prominent figures had never been impacted and influenced by a mentor. Various individuals consistently conclude that they are who they are and where they are because of the support they have received from a mentor. This is extremely important in the day in which we live as many youths are experiencing social, academic, and behavioral difficulties. According to the Edna McConnell Clark Foundation, today many youths have limited access to adults due to high rates of divorce, single parent households, and fewer institutions and activities that are geared to support youth. With this in mind, mentors can step in and meet a signinficant need.
What exactly is a mentor? Well according to Webster, a mentor is "a trusted counselor or guide". The word originates from a character in the Odyssey who was named Mentor. King Odysseus entrusted Mentor to watch over his son Telemachus and to prepare him to reign, rule and sit on the throne. This, in essence, is the goal of a mentor today, preparing individuals to maximize their potential. As the anonymous poet said, "With help from a friend, you can reach the stars."
Therefore it is imperative that we make a commitment to mentoring our youths. Research has shown that mentoring programs can assist in the reduction of peer violence, substance abuse, teen pregnancy, and gang membership. In addition, mentoring as been shown to increase academic achievement and school participation. Not only are youths impacted but by sacrifically giving, mentors also benefit from these relationships. When mentors commit to mentoring they are in essence enhancing their schools, churches, and communities. As Zig Ziglar suggested, You cannot help someone get to the mountain without getting to the top yourself."
Practically speaking, how can this be done? Well, first one could serve as a volunteer in an already existing program. Schools, recreational programs, churches and other programs are always looking for help in this manner. Of course the traditional one to one approach is always an option. Maybe there is someone you know that needs a little push or perhaps even reminds you of a younger you that needs some guidance and direction. Either way, it doesn't take a huge amount of time, just a willingness to give back. As I close, that's what I want to remind you to do today. Take a moment to remember the investment that someone made in you yesterday, so that you can do the same for someone today. I promise, it will make a huge difference for everyone tommorrow!
PEACE!
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